Christians stop allowing the world to make you feel like a Pharisee because you quote the scripture. It is the devil’s job in these last and evil days to make the world hate Christians or think Christians are idiots. Yes, there are judgmental people out there. Yes, there are people who quote scriptures and commit the same sin, they are not Christians they are hypocrites (Matthew 15:7). Stop confusing the two. When Jesus confronted the Pharisees, He called them exactly what they were hypocrites. That is not the definition of a Christian.
Sometimes when people face trials they get discourage, make mistakes and often give up. In the midst of it all God can still release His power through us to speak to those dry bones. God taught Ezekiel words carry incredible power. Especially His (God’s) Words! Do you speak to your dry bones so they can live again?
As an adult some people may feel they have complete and udder control of their lives; what they need to know is they will never have total control. If they are saved God has control of their lives if they let him. If they are unsaved, the devil will do everything he can to take over their lives, and when they continue to be unsaved or unholy, he will win.
The lack of self-control can be found in every part of life. No matter what circumstance in which it exists, the shortage of self-discipline always leads to undesirable outcomes. Over spending leads to debt, overeating leads to obesity, lack of exercise leads to poor health, and the list could go on to include the use of drugs, alcohol, sex outside of marriage, deceitfulness and so much more.
If you live with your boyfriend, you are allowing him to get the milk for free. While, you may not see a problem with this God does. You should only live with a man if you are married. Once you are married you should be dedicated to each other, and honest with each other. In God’s eyes that’s the way you should live.