Are You Allowing Your Man to Get the Milk for Free?

If you live with your boyfriend, you are allowing him to get the milk for free. While you may not see a problem with this God does.

Milk for Free. What does this even mean?

If you live with your boyfriend, you are allowing him to get the milk for free. While you may not see a problem with this God does.

You should only live with a man if you are married. Once you are married, you should be dedicated to each other, and honest with each other. In God’s eyes, that’s the way you should live.

Marriage and commitment

When a marriage commitment is not made your boyfriend may feel he can come and go as he wants. He may also feel marriage is not needed. Thus he is getting milk for free.

If someone shows him they are willing to do more then you; he may leave you for this person. That’s without feeling any moral, or financial repercussions.

When you are in a committed marriage, God will hold him responsible for his actions. We’re judged every day by God.when you’re not living by his word, you will not be judged in the way you want to be judged by Him.

How God feels

Ezekiel 16:38 says, “And I will judge thee, as women who break wedlock and shed blood are judged: and I will give thee blood in fury and jealousy.” When you understand what this verse means you will understand how God feels about a man and a woman living together outside of wedlock.

When your man knows he is not tied to you in any way, he won’t be terrified to leave. He won’t be afraid to step away to see if the grass is greener on the other side. He won’t be scared to be intimate with someone else.

If he’s getting the milk for free it is very possible he has the idea in his head it won’t matter what he does you’ll always be there.

Stop giving your man milk for free

If you are allowing him to get the milk for free, it’s time to stop. It is time to sit down and talk to him.  Share your thoughts and feelings about the way you are living.

It’s time to tell him it’s not the Godly way to live, and you also need to make sure he knows. Ezekiel 16:38 says, “You’ll be judged if you continue to live in this manner, and you don’t want to handle the wrath of God! Sexual intimacy in marriage is God’s design.

Genesis 2:24 “For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.”

This next scripture says it best when you hear “everyone is doing it this is a better way.” Proverbs 14:12 states, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end, it leads to death.”

It’s time to put your foot down and tell him the milk will no longer be free for the taking.

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Deanetta P. Thompson is a Christian blogger for women who struggle on a daily basis trying to learn and understand God's Words. She will share with you her tools she uses when studying the Bible. As a brain tumor survivor she knows to well what it is like to struggle.

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